Often, we all tend to get ourselves better on a daily. We strive to enhance our status-quo, but while we do, forgetting there are lives around us that consciously, subconsciously, and unconsciously watches on as we all yearn for betterment.
Right from the cultural beliefs to family settings which procure that, “A child learns all he/she would later become or way to go about a particular situation from his parents. ” The child takes retrospective actions in any situation as he/she has learned (consciously, subconsciously, and unconsciously) from the parents. As we grow older, we tend to go all out on decision making on our own and with the beliefs, we’ve acquired.
As most approach adulthood, we begin to have friends and somewhat loved one’s that influences our living and actions, and in return, they are influenced by the way we act and make decisions too. The real question is, “what effect does our life has as we strive to make our self better on the life around us? ” Are our actions wanting to make them have their own thoughts of becoming better towards a good cause? (Making them glued to us) or rather teaching them how to become better for a bad cause? (Making them run from us).
We live without being conscious to the fact that, people who see us on a daily, and even not too often, yearn to gain from us, and more importantly for the good cause than the bad. Are we making them glued to us or having a run from us? Our characters are different from one another, most of us are inclined to role models that we strive to become or garner to ourselves the way they (the role models) lives…
This represents a call for a watchful us, a ‘think-before-doing’ everyone to be conscious of our actions around any place we find ourselves in. As people are all watching us more than we believed. Friends, families, even strangers! They are, and factually wanting to be glued to us even though we might not be conscious of their existence around us!
Are you that someone people around you strive to learn from? (Making men) or it would rather be a run due to a bad cause? (Mad man). Have a deep thought today? What are your actions instilling in people? What would be their actions whenever they set their sights on you, stay glued or run? What are you? A MADE MEN OR A MAD MAN?
Thank you Gbadebo Adebayo for this amazing insight.