We have all been warned of making this terrible mistake. But what might not have been related is that people often times are far more well-camouflaged than a book. Sometimes, even when we try to peel back the crusty exterior, we still find more protective wrapping. And if you are one of the fortunate ones who are not familiar with these many, many layers of emotional protection, then simply be thankful for that blessing and patient with those who are weary.
No one is born with layer after layer of insulation from harsh words or other forms of abuse. This protective shroud only comes after immense pain and suffering. As a person trying to find the real heart and soul of another who wears this protective layer, understand that is was acquired at a very high cost and was the last resort to sustain what the person holds most dear. This survival mechanism is not necessarily directed at you or a result of anything that you have done. But with kindness, genuine concern and love you can help to unlock the vault that another person has chosen to hide within.
And as the layers begin to disappear and the real person begins to shine through, you will witness something far more amazing and beautiful than even the transformation of the caterpillar to the butterfly. Your love and compassion will change the entire world as this person adds his or her true beauty and gifts to it.
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Beautifully said. At my age, I call my mistakes lessons, and I have a learned a lot. The great part of it, is that I don’t repeat them, as most are painful lessons. So yes, people look at me an see something different from what I really am. I guess we all have to create our own protective shield, and it comes after years of mistakes/lessons for us.