A smile is universal. It knows no language barrier, nor does it hold a different meaning to those from other generations. It is free to give but is treasured when received. It can be used to set a positive tone for a conversation or bring a pleasant end to a dialog. It can even be used in place of dialog. A smile is the simplest of things to offer to another human being, as it takes only 17 muscles to smile. But that simplest of acts is one of the few things that connects every human being on the planet, from tiny children to our most revered elders.
So true. And so simple and easy. You don’t have to deliberate how or when it should be done, or if you should do it. Almost any occasion is an occasion to smile, except perhaps when someone is grieving over a loss or in deep distress. But then, I think we can also smile a smile of compassion that would not be offensive even in those situations as long as it is accompanied by the right words. Too much frowning leaves deep, unpleasant lines in the forehead, but too much smiling may make a few pleasant-looking crinkles around the eyes, but more importantly, leaves a pleasant feeling in ourselves and in those who receive our smiles. God bless you, Kathy.
Thank you, Diane- a smile can mean so much to total stranger who is just searching for one hint of something good from the day. We all have the ability to brighten many other peoples day without uttering a single word!