Everyone is burdened by self-doubt at one time or another. And anyone who claims to never have been plagued by this insecurity is lying to himself or herself. We all know that no one is perfect, but we also know that at times, we don’t feel as if we measure up to those around us. It might be in a work situation, on a personal level with friends or even as a spouse or parent, but we all have these doubts about our own abilities from time to time. It’s part of being human.
During these times of uncertainty, it is essential to have confidence in your ability to learn, grow, and adapt. No one knows everything or is good at everything that they try to do. We all must be satisfied to take small steps and learn over time. And we must all learn to feel satisfaction in our small victories. With each tiny bit of progress that you make, you will find that your confidence is also growing.
As you begin to learn a new skill, think about how you would go about teaching a friend. You would show patience and understanding if your friend struggled, and you would cheer for each success that your friend enjoyed. So as you begin to undertake the process of learning something new, be sure to be your own best friend. Be patient and understanding with yourself and celebrate your own successes.
Once more, Kathy, your post today makes me think of my dear mother whose repetitive refrain as we were growing up was: Be your own best friend. It’s taken me years to truly understand what this means as most of my life was focused on comparing myself (often unfavorably) to others and trying to conform to my peers’ and society’s dictates so I could “fit in” and be accepted. I’m not sure why it took me so long to learn that we are all unique and yet alike, too, and and why finding that balance is so important for a fulfilling and authentic life. Thank you for articulating this timeless wisdom so well here, as you always do.
I have learnt a lot from what I have seen today from this website, I think & feel that we all need to look at & follow if you think it is right, the 12 universal laws, they help me is a lot of ways like always being kind to myself more so by finding my own inner love , yes loving myself & also getting to know my own inner spirit, with this I can love every body in the best ways I can. I also love helping people & trying my best to not be judgment with who every I meet on my loving & learning part of my life.
I’m a self-employed Spiritualist medium & psychic, plus a Counsellor & trainee psychotherapist, I also do Spiritual teaching & can do life & spiritual coaching. very sorry about the way I write because i’m Dyslexic.
Lovely post. Thanks for the words of encouragement. Insecurity is like a disease, the longer we hold on to it, the more harm it will do to us. Be good to yourself too.