There is never any good reason to be unkind to a friend. Even if that person has treated you poorly in the past, you need to forgive and forget. Do your best, be kind, be considerate, and offer the needed help. If that person chooses to take advantage of you or be overly demanding, it is not your fault. You have been a good friend, even if he or she could not reciprocate the goodwill.…
Christmas miracles come in all shapes and sizes. Sometimes, what we think is an absolute disaster, turns out to be a holiday blessing if we just learn to see with our heart and not our human eyes. And this year, I am being completely honest when I tell you that I had a very, very hard time seeing a particular miracle. After all, how could the loss of my aunt, my second mom, and one…
Time can be so misleading. In our youth, we look at time as being almost infinite. It is the enemy in a way. We are even so naïve as to try to speed up its passage. We want to be older, more experienced, and more worldly. If only we understood the cost of those dreams. We might rethink that wish, even though it feels as if time is a massive boulder that we are pushing…
If you could give just one gift to the world, what would it be? Maybe courage, empathy, a kinder, gentler heart? Or perhaps understanding or a sense of gratitude. Now think about how you would deliver this gift. No one can reach the entire world all at one time. You would start small, with those closest to you, both geographically and emotionally. You would work each day to share the gift with more and more…
Kindness is a universal language. It can even reach those who do not speak because even those with no voice have a heart to hear, see, and feel kindness. Open your heart and “speak” to the world- it will understand your work.
You cannot control the world or the obstacles that it places in your path. All you can do is determine how you react to the challenges. You can rise to the occasion and overcome it. You can see the roadblock as an opportunity for a detour or change of course. Or you give up. But when you let the world win, remember you are still the one making a choice. It was within your control,…
Society has many rules. There are rules on hairstyles. Rules on fashion. Rules on lifestyle. The list is quite long. If anyone is ever brave enough to forgo them, they are literally ostracized. I say to those individuals, “Good for you!” Keep on being your own unique self. Embrace it. If you are not good enough for someone, move on to somebody else. You are way better than they are anyway. Please join me…
Sometimes we must close our eyes to clearly see our future. The clutter and confusion of the world can cloud your physical vision. But when you close your eyes, you see with your heart and soul. You envision your dreams and desires. And that will guide you through life’s daily clutter to achieving all that you dream of in your future.
People start to heal only when they choose to…Only you can search your heart and soul to find forgiveness, acceptance, and gratitude.You must choose to forgive those who hurt you.You must accept your situation.Even if you resolve to change it, you must first own it.And you must be able to find it in your heart to be grateful for what you have…Even if all you have is the strength to draw one more breath, be…
No one can force you to carry the weight of the world on your shoulders or the weight of regret or anger. The only way it happens is if you choose to accept it and hold onto it. Do yourself a favor – forgive yourself and decide not to hold onto the weight of mistakes, anger, or regrets.