Have you ever tuned into how your state of mind becomes when you either say yes or no?
It’s An Interesting Phenomenon To Say The Least.
But before we go any further I would like to make it very clear that I am not condoning or encouraging anyone to irresponsibly say yes to anything that will get them into a lot of trouble or harm them.
Such as taking recreational drugs or any mind-altering drugs or very strong or powerful alcohol or to endlessly and randomly spend money on credit cards or any other credit facility that will get them so deep into debt that they do not ever have a hope o paying it off.
Or saying yes to anything else that will lead themselves or their loved ones into a situation that is clearly not safe or any situation that can bring them into any harm. When you say ‘Yes’ you must use common sense and have a sane, rational judgment in making any yes decisions and make sure those ‘yes’ decisions will not bring you or your loved ones into harm’s way.
Now that we have all those technicalities and law-related warnings out of the way let’s dig into and explore
“The Power Of Saying Yes”
When a person says ‘Yes’ to something as a general rule of thumb it will lead them in some way into feeling better in themselves.
This is because saying ‘Yes’ is allowing the person to ‘Have’ something in their life.
It can be as simple as saying ‘yes’ to seeing a wonderful movie with a friend or the sense of ownership after saying ‘yes’ to purchase it or the ability to say ‘yes’ to participate in a pleasant activity. I will only name a few as there are literally millions of things a person can say ‘yes’ to and ‘have’ or the ability to participate in.
1: Saying ‘Yes’ to going out with family or friends to lunch, dinner or the theatre is going to say to that person’s mind that…
1: They can have fun,
2: That they can enjoy themselves,
3: That they can have a meal out instead of home food. Saying ‘Yes’ is sending a positive signal to the person’s mind that they can ‘have’ or participate in something positive.
On the negative side saying ‘No’ to something is the complete opposite of all the above.
So now let us look at how saying ‘Yes’ to other things can lead to a very positive happy life.
When any person, a young baby, a child, a teenager or an adult whether they are male or female is told ‘Yes’ you can ‘Do’ or ‘Have’ something which is pleasurable to them most of the time, especially if it creates an instant positive reaction of a smile, laughter, an emotional reaction of some description that says ‘Thank You’ to the person who is saying ‘Yes’ to them that they can ‘Do’ or ‘Have’ that thing.
Now as all parents know, you cannot always say ‘Yes’ to every demand or whim of a child otherwise you end up with a spoilt brat.
However when the child knows that they are going to be told ‘Yes’ to the thing they want to do or have if they do or follow the instructions of their parents then you, generally speaking, will get more cooperation from the child.
Now let’s look at the grown-up or adult world and see how a person using this ‘Yes’ technology on themselves or their work colleague’s can have dramatically good results.
Here we have two examples of Extreme ‘Horse Power’.
Both of these machines were brought about by people saying ‘Yes’ to creating them, do
you Agree or Disagree?
So if these two powerful machines and many like them were brought about by the simple
act of some people saying ‘Yes’ what does that say for “The Power of Saying Yes”?
When you really start looking into the extraordinary things and the power that is
unleashed that people can achieve by just saying ‘Yes’ it starts to make you wonder where
else this Phenomenon can lead a person.
1: What if a person wanted to become an Olympic athlete and they said to themselves, over
and over and over ‘Yes’ I am worthy of and already in their mind ‘Yes’ they have
already won several Gold Medals.
2: Did you know that powerful affirmation and to the end result of saying ‘Yes’ to
themselves has helped some major celebrities get from complete poverty and being
totally unknown to now being worldwide celebrities?
Oprah Winfrey, Jim Carrey, Denzel Washington, Jennifer Lopez, Jerry Seinfeld, J.K.
Rowling, Anthony Robbins to name but a few. Did you know that Robert Downey Jr. went
off script during the filming of the final scenes of Iron Man 1 and said: “I am Iron Man.”.
It was those off scripted words by Robert Downey Junior that excited and inspired and
helped the Director and other people on the crew to make the movies even better than the
original DC Comics.
The Iron Man Movies went onto to make over 1 Billion Dollars in the Box offices of the
World.
So do you now think that there is some value or worth in you going off your current life
script and saying to yourself and to others, ‘Yes’ I am the CEO of XYZ Corporation and
‘Yes,’ I am a multi- Millionaire or Billionaire? ‘Yes’ I am a World Famous Banjo
Player. Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes should be the words coming out of
your mouth every morning that you get up, ‘Yes’ I am going to succeed at whatever it is
that you want to succeed at.
You must clearly understand that because there is now so much competition in the world
that any person that is seriously considering making a success of themselves cannot ignore
the Power of saying ‘Yes’ in their vocabulary.
Yes, I am a famous movie star.
Yes, I am a famous author.